Finding the Right People

Getting people who mesh well together is always a challenge. One benefit of supper clubs is coming across all kinds of people. The good news is that you get to meet people. The bad news is that the chances of them being a great fit are pretty slim. One of the beauties of my supper club experience is that my wife and I have used the more formal supper club, where there are a lot of people, to find the smaller group that we really wanted to be friends with. In the end, dealing with a few jerks can be worth it if you get to know some very interesting people.

 

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Dealing with Costs

There are several ways to deal with costs. The methods differ based on the type of  club, how formal it is, and how much control the host wants. A simple way to split out the costs is to follow the formula used in “The Classic Club” example it the book.

Costs

Costs for making the dishes are tracked by each couple. At the end of the evening, all costs for food and wine will be totaled then divided equally among the four couples, with each couple paying one-fourth of the total meal cost.

 

Cost Example

 

  Costs   Avg. Cost   Net
           
Couple 1 (Hosts) $175.00   -$67.00   $108.00
Couple 2 $35.00   -$67.00   -$32.00
Couple 3 $15.00   -$67.00   -$52.00
Couple 4 $43.00   -$67.00   -$24.00
           
  $268.00   -$268.00   $0.00
           
Average Cost $67.00        

 

 

It is amazing how costs are virtually never an issue. With a little planning and discretion, supper clubs are economical even for the more cost conscious. You can have a good meal and social event for less than $70 per couple. The cost driver is usually the alcohol. The rule we have followed is to target “reasonably” priced wines. Although participants have defined “reasonable” differently, on average we have probably been in the $20-a-bottle range, though there have been notable exceptions for costs and quantities. I can tell you that our young kids did once question the number of wine bottles in the recycling bin after one particularly fun event.

With new people coming in and out of the club, there have been a few surprises. One new club member built in the cost of a pot she bought for the event into her total contribution. I can’t say that couple is still part of the club. The rule we have lived by is that if we incur a cost because we want to try something different or more expensive than the norm, we simply absorb that cost. With this said, some hosts are more popular than others.

Mise En Place

Mise En Place

Preparation is a simple concept. If you can get things ready in advance, it takes the pressure off when you have to pull the meal together. The beauty of preparation is that it increases your chances of success and reduces stress. Having the work done in advance allows you to enjoy your guests and the event.

When it comes to food, the French really know their stuff. My work took me to France many times. With all the time I spent there, it is hard for me to remember a bad meal. I have had good meals in French airports. I even had a great meal in a factory cafeteria (I had these wax beans with shallots that were so good I spent years trying to replicate the flavor). One of the keys to French cuisine goes back to the culinary school lesson about Mise en Place.

Loosely translated, mise en place means “putting into place.” My definition of mise en place includes all the key steps to get ready for a dinner: menu development, event planning and meal preparation. The goal is to get as much done in advance as possible.

I break the process down into four stages:

  1. Theme Creation
  2. Menu Development
  3. Shopping List/Work Plan
  4. Preparation