A quick outline of what Impromptu Friday Nights – A Guide to Supper Clubs is about:

Almost everyone likes to socialize over a meal. Supper clubs that bring people together to enjoy a meal are natural enablers. The concept of supper clubs (hosting regular dinner parties) seems simple but the “how to” can be daunting. This book shows the reader how to set up supper clubs, provides options for different club formats, from large and formal to small and informal, and includes sample menus with recipes.

One of the cornerstones behind this book is the French culinary concept of “Mise En Place.” Loosely translated, this means put into place. Whether you are a classically trained chef or a weekend warrior hosting a dinner party, the key to success is preparation. The book has been written with menus, recipes and preparation plans to show the reader how to do things in advance so that the host/cook can enjoy the party and have a better chance of preparing and presenting a great meal.

Each chapter outlines a different kind of supper club based on different preferences – from a classic formal club to a club where members can’t cook but they know where to get great food. Chapters go over organization, club make-up, scheduling, host responsibilities, menu development, mise en place and costs. Sample menus show how to put a meal together, and prep schedules at the end of each chapter guide the reader to executing mise en place. In addition, sections listing prep time, cook time, cookware needed and wine recommendations complete the guide for a reader to be able to host an amazing meal.

 

Who should be interested?

Supper clubs are a great solution for most generations but it is a particularly attractive concept for millenials, the “social” generation. Millenials grew up going to great restaurants, watching the Food Channel, and practicing being foodies. They know a lot about good food. While many might love the supper club concept, they are searching for a guide on how to get one set up. This book has been written with millenials in mind with the goal of providing a roadmap for them with simple solutions so they can enjoy the benefits of supper clubs. They are entering the stage of their lives where supper clubs will be a great fit with their socialization needs. As they settle down into longer-term relationships, get married and start families, supper clubs provide a great way to get together with friends over a meal.

 

Impromptu Friday Nights – A guide to Supper Clubs will be available from Morgan James Publishing in January 2018

“I Don’t Cook, but I Know Where to Buy”

 

 

When talking about Supper Clubs with people one of the first things I hear is: “I don’t cook but I love to socialize over a meal”. There is a chapter in the book outlining a type of club that is a perfect solution. This type of club is for people that either don’t like to cook, can’t cook, don’t have the time or are simply not good cooks. In today’s “foodie” world, there are all kinds of options to bring people together over a great meal without cooking.

 

This club is patterned after my daughter’s mother in law. Helene is a foodie and a great hostess, but she doesn’t cook. She and her husband, Rick, bring together great meals by shopping from local markets and restaurants. One of the best things about this type of club is the research. Think of all the fun you can have trying different foods from all kinds of markets and restaurants with the objective of hosting a supper club meal.

 

While there are some great restaurants in Montauk, getting reservations and fighting crowds can be quite a challenge. The perfect answer is a supper club.

 

It can be tough to get into the your preferred restaurants on a weekend no matter where you are, whether you are in Montauk or have a lake house in Iuka, Mississippi or live in the city. You can, however, get amazing food from just about any restaurant via takeout.

 

 

 

Club Make-Up

 

This type of club is based on who is out for the weekend or who you see at the beach or run into at Starbucks. Emails and last minute texts are great to find out who is around on a weekend. One thing about having a place in the Hamptons is that you have a lot of visitors. Every weekend, you can count on family and friends to be around. Without fail, they are hungry for a great meal. Come to think of it, whether you are at a beach house or just hanging out at home, an impromptu dinner party where you don’t have to cook is a winner.

 

 

Scheduling

 

This type of club is more of a ‘planned impromptu’. It is certainly more flexible than other types of clubs. A little planning goes a long way to spread the hosting responsibilities around. Having the club evolve to where you have a schedule of hosting responsibilities is ideal. One of the keys is flexibility, as you usually don’t know about last minute additions.

 

 

Host Responsibilities

 

Coming up with the theme and the menu is the first thing the host has to do. For example, when I am out in the Hamptons, my favorite theme is Seafood and Local Produce. It’s funny, but when you say “New York” to non New Yorkers, they think “city.” They don’t think farms and great local produce. The truth is that during the summer and fall, there are all kinds of farm stands and wonderful local produce. And, the seafood is just phenomenal. Lobster, clams, swordfish, scallops, blue fish, flounder… It is all good!

 

Coordination and communication are the keys to this type of club. By default, the host has to take over the bulk of this responsibility. The host has to let people know:

 

• Where
• When
• The theme and menu
• What to bring
• Who is responsible for what

 

As with the majority of supper clubs, the host does the lion’s share of the cleaning. With this type of club (and others) you can delegate the cleaning or even bringing plates and glasses. You may know, for example, that Harry never cooks and his wife really hates hosting. Put him in charge of clean up. One thing I have seen over the years is that resentment builds up when a couple never wants to host a party. Everyone has a friend like this. You like their company and want to include them but you know they will never reciprocate. Here is your chance: give that person or persons other jobs.

 

 

Mis En Place

 

The preparation for this type of club is different. It is more about scheduling and coordinating pick up. Helene and Rick out at Montauk will serve a first course and Rick will disappear and run down to Gosman’s to pick up the lobster. A 15-minute run to a restaurant to pick up hot food is not that big a deal. With conversation, alcohol and hors d’oeuvres, chances are no one will miss a person or two. Again, with coordination and communication you can be prepared without doing the cooking.

 

 

Costs

 

There are two basic approaches to costs:

• Pay for what you are asked to bring
• Total all cost and divide it equally as demonstrated in the classic club formula

 

 

Menu Development

 

This menu is a little different in that not only do you need to think of the items, but you also have to think about where to buy it (again: research is key and, fun).

 

 

The following are examples of menus developed for no-cook supper clubs hosted in the Hamptons and Memphis.

Helene and Rick spend their summers in Montauk, NY. Montauk is a fantastic place in the summer. From a year round population of 3,000, it explodes to over 30,000 during the summer. Located on the very tip of Long Island, it is a two-hour car or train ride from NYC. Weekends in the summer can get a little crazy as people escape from the city to the seashore.